Asian American & BIPOC Therapist | Burnout & Trauma Counseling

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You came to therapy not because you are broken, but because the strategies that got you here no longer fit who you are becoming.

You spent years measuring your worth by what you produced, how much you endured, how reliably you showed up for others. When those measures begin to fall apart, what follows is not relief. It is disorientation.

Therapy, in my work, is not about fixing these reactions. It is about understanding what they are telling you, and from that understanding, building something more honest and sustainable.

Clients I work with move from suppressing their emotions to learning from them. From organizing their lives around others' expectations to recognizing what they actually value. These are not small shifts. They change how you relate to yourself, and how you show up with the people who matter to you.

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Symptoms are not the problem to be solved. They are the most honest thing about you — the part that could not stay quiet any longer. In my work, we do not try to remove them. We get curious about what they are trying to tell you.

Presence

The most important thing I bring to this work is not a technique or a framework. It is presence: the willingness to be fully in the room with you, and to stay with what is difficult long enough for something to shift.

Relational

I am a relational therapist. This means the relationship between us is not just the container for the work. It is the work. I pay close attention to what happens in the room: shifts in energy, moments of connection, the small places where something feels off between us. When I notice a rupture, a moment where you pulled back, where something I said did not land right, where the air changed, I will name it. Repairing those moments is not a detour from therapy. It is often the most important thing we do.

Experiential

I also work experientially. Alongside talking, we use mindfulness and body-based practices to help you access what thinking alone cannot reach: the emotion that stays just out of range, the sensation that arrives before the words do. I may ask you to slow down and notice what is happening in your body right now, in this moment. Not because the body has all the answers, but because it often knows something the mind has been working hard to ignore.

The Frameworks I Draw From

I do not work from a single model. Depending on what you bring and what the work calls for, I draw primarily from:

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy · Interpersonal Process · Somatic Psychotherapy · Internal Family Systems

한국어로 상담이 가능합니다.

You don't have to be in crisis to begin this work. A brief consultation is available to see if this feels like a fit. No pressure, no obligation. If you prefer to reach out by email, you're welcome to contact me directly at hseo@drseopsychology.com

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How are sessions structured?

Each session has a gentle rhythm. We begin by checking in — noticing what you are carrying into the room, what stayed with you from our last session, and what feels most alive for you today. From there, we go where the work takes us: sometimes excavation, going slowly through something you have never fully examined. Other times more immediate, staying with what is happening right now, between us, in the room. We close by pausing to notice what you are taking away, and what you might want to stay with before we meet again.

Sessions are 50 minutes and typically meet weekly, especially at the start.

What happens in the first few sessions?

The first three to four sessions are largely about orientation — understanding your history, identifying recurring patterns, and beginning to develop a sense of what this work might look like for you. By the end of this period, most clients have a clearer picture of what they want to work on and how we might approach it together.

How long will I need to be in therapy?

This depends entirely on what you are working on and what you want from the process. Some people come with a specific concern and feel ready to move on after several months. Others are working through longer-standing patterns and find value in a more extended process. I do not believe in keeping people in therapy longer than is useful. We will check in regularly about how the work is going and whether it still makes sense to continue.

한국어로 상담이 가능합니다.

You don't have to be in crisis to begin this work. A brief consultation is available to see if this feels like a fit. No pressure, no obligation. If you prefer to reach out by email, you're welcome to contact me directly at hseo@drseopsychology.com

Schedule a Free Consultation →

Many of those I work with are Asian American, BIPOC, immigrant, bicultural, international students, or children of immigrants. People who know what it costs to live between worlds.

What brings people here often includes:

Living between worlds: the cost of code-switching, the grief of belonging nowhere fully, the weight of carrying a family's sacrifice while searching for a life that feels your own.
The emotional toll of chronic invalidation and marginalization. When the environment is the problem, I name it as such.
Intergenerational trauma and inherited survival strategies that once made sense, and now cost more than they give.
Grief and loss, including losses with no single event to point to: the parts of yourself suppressed to survive, the identity you were never given room to explore.
Perfectionism, imposter phenomenon, burnout, and the relentless "shoulds" that stand between where you are and who you want to be.

한국어로 상담이 가능합니다.

You don't have to be in crisis to begin this work. A brief consultation is available to see if this feels like a fit. No pressure, no obligation. If you prefer to reach out by email, you're welcome to contact me directly at hseo@drseopsychology.com

Schedule a Free Consultation →